What I particularly like about her books is that they leave me feeling good about life

Once again, a very heartfelt thank you to everyone who has purchased one of my books and taken the time to write a review. All profits are going to help save the lives of dogs. Profits from The Persecution of Mildred Dunlap are going to the Santa Paula Animal Rescue Center, the first and only no kill animal shelter in Ventura county, CA.

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5.0 out of 5 stars Great story!, December 10, 2014
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Another fabulous read by this author! What I particularly like about her books is that they leave me feeling good about life. The funny thing is that the author tackles heavy weight subjects such as cancer in the previous book I read and at the heart of this book we have a lesbian relationship at the end of the 19th century, when the word ‘gay’ had an entirely different meaning. However, though the lesbian relationship is central to the story this is not a romance or a strident voice for human rights. It is a far gentler, emotional story about real people trying to live their lives in difficult circumstances. We see people’s prejudices including homophobia, racism, anti-Semitism and religious hypocrisy but ultimately we have a story about how love and friendship are more important than anything else. I loved that the author did not hit me over the head with a heavy hammer to make her points. She lays out a story without condemning the majority of people with their varied prejudices but leaves us to be grateful that we live in more enlightened times. There is also the thought that the author is reminding us that though we have come a long way with tackling prejudice we still have a great deal further to go! The story is beautifully written and there are some lovely little touches such as the ongoing quotes of Oscar Wilde who features prominently at the beginning of the book. The next time you are fed up of hearing all the bad news in the world pick up one of this author’s books and feel better about life.
4.0 out of 5 stars An engaging novel with a great message. Some parts were a little unrealistic, December 4, 2014
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An engaging novel with a great message. Some parts were a little unrealistic, but it kept my interest. Loved each chapter’s quote from Oscar Wilde.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Inspiring Love Story, December 20, 2014
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This story is uplifting, heart wrenching, and endearing. You are given the opportunity to witness an incredible love story between two cancer patients who’ve chosen to live and appreciate their lives after coming face to face with their own mortality. They don’t wait for a “second chance” because they know all too well that the future is not a guarantee.

Through life’s trials and tribulations, both Sara and Ben have taken their diagnoses and, rather than dwell on them, they each blossom and open themselves up to love. They relate to one another beautifully and entrust each other with their most vulnerable selves.

We follow Sara’s reconciliation with her past and self as a direct result of a chance meeting with a compassionate and handsome man, Ben. Despite Ben’s inner fear and disbelief that he has cancer, he finds strength to support Sara and reconcile with his own troubled past.

Their love inspires the reader, who is filled with the hope that these two will be able to live out long, beautiful lives together despite having found one another under such terrible circumstances. After finishing the love story, you are reassured that their love is infinite.

5.0 out of 5 stars Breathtaking and so beautifully written, December 11, 2014
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His Name Was Ben is such a brilliant book that I read it in one sitting. I’ve never done that before! By the time I got to the epilogue, I shed a tear of both happiness and sadness. This is one of those books that grips you from the start and it’s a struggle to put it down. Paulette Mahurin has endowed her characters with a combination of qualities that make them relatable and inspirational. I was particularly moved by Sara and the many situations she encounters during the course of the story. Her relationship with Ben is beautiful but what differentiates them from most couples is that they endure some of the most difficult things imaginable whilst still maintaining such an incredible degree of love and respect for one another. This is one of those books that not only moves you but teaches you several lessons about love, relationships, family and personal growth. I’d recommend it in a heart beat!
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The Persecution of Mildred Dunlap:

A very lovely blogger friend could use some good wishes. She’s always so positive and supportive when she comes to visit my site and all the while this is what she’s going through. She’s an inspiration beyond words. My heart and love go to her in hopes the suffering she’s experiencing eases. Please friends feel free to pay her a visit.

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I’m done with the radiation treatments – the last one was the day before Thanksgiving. But I’m not happy with how I’m feeling. I feel frail and off balance. As if I’ve aged 20+ years in the last 3 weeks of treatment. My throat is sore – every time I swallow it feels like I’m trying to swallow razor blades. If you’ve ever had strep throat you know what that feels like. No matter what I eat, it hurts to swallow. Except for ice cream after the first few swallows. And crushed ice. It even hurts to drink water.

I’m still off balance and listing to port. I am very careful about walking, especially in the house as Peanut has to lie down in the middle of the hallway so nobody can get past her without her knowing. I suppose that’s part of her herding instincts to know where everyone…

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I know firsthand how the dreaded “C” word coming from an oncologist’s lips can set one’s world into a tailspin

A deeply heartfelt thank you to Craig Furchtenicht for this thoughtful review.

5.0 out of 5 stars A beautiful lesson in living, November 28, 2014
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This is my first go-round, reading the work of Paulette Mahurin. It will definitely not be my last. She had me from the first paragraph and kept me tight in her literary grips until the final line. I was thoroughly impressed by her skills as a writer but I would have to say her mastery of dialogue was the one that kept me fully committed to the novel. From the initial phone conversation with Ben to the tense banter between Sara and her seemingly callous mother, the cleverly orchestrated exchanges were spot on. I usually do not let my full range of emotions kick in while I am reading fiction, but this book left me hugging my pillow and dabbing my eyes. Being the spouse of a cancer survivor, this book touched a bit too close to home at times. I know firsthand how the dreaded “C” word coming from an oncologist’s lips can set one’s world into a tailspin. I also know how tales of adversity in the face of death can inspire hope that sometimes seems so far out of reach. The subject matter not only touches on Sara and Ben’s disease but the many issues that they have faced during their lives. Mahurin pulls no punches in her writing so don’t expect a candy-coated version of the truth. It is a beautiful mixture of love story, tragedy and inspiration. I would recommend this to anyone who has been diagnosed with a terminal illness and their loved ones.
5.0 out of 5 stars Dark Tale with Plenty of Spiritual Strength and Light, November 30, 2014
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This is one of those real life dramas that I usually try to escape from in my reading, as opposed to plunge myself into. Especially when the tale is captured with this degree of vividness and proof that the author did her homework; there was no not feeling all the heart-wrenching emotions that go along with cancer therapy and struggling to survive the attempts to cure the person as much as the disease. But paradoxically, by making me live through this as if I were battling to survive late stage cancer myself, the book exacted its own healing, strengthening me to deal with the worst life can throw at me, which, in the final analysis, is what we hope all novels we pick up will give us, but that few truly do. Most are instead a temporary reprieve, an escape. And no, this story isn’t just about finding inner strength to carry an unbearable burden, it’s about the transformative power of love and relationships and of fully inhabiting the moment at the instant you most want to flee from it.
5.0 out of 5 stars Their love is presented with great dignity, December 7, 2014
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‘His Name Was Ben’ by Paulette Mahurin is one the most touching stories
I’ve read in a long time. Though the title reveals what will happen to Ben, it
doesn’t take away from the reader’s anticipation. The reader follows both
Sara and Ben on their plight, as cancer patients, to face the horrendous
disease and help one another.Their love is presented with great dignity. The author depicts how Sara reacts
to having lost her breasts to cancer and how Ben praises her beauty even though
she has no breasts. Their love keeps growing until the very sad end. This story of love conveys that every day we have, can and should be enjoyed.
Tazzie is a dog to be remembered.
Sara’s difficulties with her awful past are intertwined very well into the story.
This well-written, well-edited novel is both sensitive and enlightening to how people can overcome the horrors of the BIG C.
Juliet C.B. Aharoni
A must-read

5.0 out of 5 stars His Name was Ben by Paulette Mahurin is an excellent book. It held my interest throughout the book …, December 8, 2014
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His Name was Ben by Paulette Mahurin is an excellent book. It held my interest throughout the book and I found it very interesting. Paulette’s visualization is so good that it makes me feel as if I am right there in the story. I recommend this book. In fact, I have already told my friends and family to buy this book and read it.
5.0 out of 5 stars Told with style and charm, 10 Dec 2014
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“His Name was Ben” is a captivating love story between Sara and Ben, two people self- absorbed by their separate episodes with cancer, yet their lives achieve a new meaning when they meet each other. As we get to know these two scarred souls and the hard challenges they have already had to overcome, we come to like them more and more throughout this romantic tale.

I was particularly moved when Sara first met Ben in the waiting room. They chatted briefly and Sara was instantly attracted to the handsome stranger. Yet, because his prognosis was more serious than hers, Ben was hesitant to start a relationship. I shared Sara’s stress and fears as she was torn about whether or not to call Ben because of her own self-doubts.

As a side note, another reason that this book made my heart jump, besides the romance between Sara and Ben, was a reference in the text to the Self-Realization Institute locate in Malibu. Sara had gone there to find peace. I lived in LA for a short time and I attended services at the Institute. On one memorable occasion TV star Dennis Weaver (of Gunsmoke and McCloud fame) gave a guest sermon at the institute.

As an outstanding romance novel, this book hits all the right notes, and does it with style and charm.

It would make a great read for the beach, or to curl up with on the couch on a cold night.

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We are kept in suspense until the final few pages. And while the threat of death is always present, this is actually a positive, uplifting story

From time to time, I post reviews from my book, as a heartfelt thank you to all who have purchased, read, and taken the time to write a review. And, to everyone who has mentioned it to someone, blogged about it, or helped spread the word, again my heartfelt thank you. You’ve all contributed energy to help save a dog. Check #3 is going in the mail to Canine Adoption Rescue League: http://carldogs.org/

5.0 out of 5 stars Compelling, moving story of love and life, November 19, 2014
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Sara, dying of cancer, meets Ben in the waiting room of her oncologist. They both have been accepted into a trial program for an advanced cancer treatment. They start to see each other and fall in love. As the story progresses, the shadow of death always hangs over Sara and Ben, and we hope they both will eventually survive, but worry that one or both of them will eventually succumb to their cancer. We are kept in suspense until the final few pages. And while the threat of death is always present, this is actually a positive, uplifting story.This is a very well written book. The characterizations are well done and believable. Sara is not just a young woman in the present: she comes to life also because of her memories of childhood and an earlier, failed marriage. A constant image in the book is of Sara’s frequent dream of a baby girl and an approaching man, who seems to be menacing and may be familiar to her. Ben’s character is also very well formed both in the present and in memories of his past, particularly of his parents. We become immersed in the world of Sara, Ben, Sara’s best friend Ella, and Sara’s dog Tazzie. I also loved the descriptions of the Southern California settings: the coast and the inland town of Ojai, where Sara lives. (I went to Google to see where and what kind of place Ojai is: a lovely town set in scenic valley, by the way.)This was a truly enjoyable and uplifting read. After awhile I was so captured by this story that I found it difficult to put the book down: I read the last third of the book in one sitting. I am impressed with this author and look forward to reading Paulette Mahurin’s earlier book, The Persecution of Mildred Dunlap.Review by Mike, pen name Raymond Barrie
5.0 out of 5 stars Exceptional Read!, November 27, 2014
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The story of “His Name Was Ben” is one of the most heartfelt and beautifully written stories I’ve ever had the pleasure of reading. The depth of character details was phenomenal. The way Mahurin describes the compassion, love, struggles, triumphant victories, heartache and loss between the two main characters, Sara and Ben, is something that will leave you breathless.
Unfortunately cancer is the contributing factor for Sara and Ben faithful meeting; it’s ultimately strength, shared family drama, hope and love, which keeps the pair joined, fighting for their lives together. A story of acceptance of one’s own personal doubts with their physical and emotional hardships, with a few twists and turns alone the way. “His Name Was Ben” is an exceptional read and I commend Mahurin’s brilliant and vivid version of the real story of Sara and Ben.
I look forward to reading more from this Author and wish her all the best with her future endeavors.
5.0 out of 5 stars Redemption and Hope on Four Legs, November 20, 2014
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This is so much more than a book about two people, a love affair and a dog. This is a book about life, and all it throws our way, and how those events shape and mold us and how we grow and heal when such events are less than happy. I cried with the characters even as I cheered them on. This is a story about redemption and hope–and a wonderfully written testament to both.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Fantastic Read!!!, November 23, 2014
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His Name was Ben is an emotionally moving tale! Ben and Sara are infectious characters that play out two successful characters that have excelled in life, even when coming from two extremely dysfunctional homes. They face issues together, nurture one another, and face grim issues while entertaining the thought of metaphysics. I love the deep adoring love these two characters hold for one another, and how Tazzie, Sara’s dog, is right there in the story! Additionally, this heartwarming story provides a wealth of knowledge, historically and medically. Moreover, the story is extremely hard to put down. The reader becomes attached to the characters. One anxiously awaits what detail will unravel from page to page. One highly recommends His Name was Ben, as it is a brilliant story that provides a window of serious issues. Furthermore, it depicts two beautiful souls that fall madly in love, while admirably dealing with life’s tragedies.
5.0 out of 5 stars Great love story!, November 24, 2014
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I have just finished this book in very quick time as I didn’t want to stop reading. It is a story about a couple who meet while suffering from terminal cancer and are taking a last throw of the dice, by volunteering for a trial of a promising but unproven treatment. Sounds like a recipe for a tear jerker. Well I did shed a few tears but actually this is in fact a very uplifting story because though their time together was limited, they found a love that we can all only hope to experience.
The story is emotional but inspiring and heart warming. It is also beautifully written and the characters seem very real. Apart from Ben and Sara we have some other colourful characters, in particular their parents.
I liked that the author tackled the difficult subject of Sara having had a double mastectomy and no longer feeling like a woman until Ben shows her and all of us that we are not defined by our physical looks but our spirit.
A great book!
5.0 out of 5 stars A Chance Encounter, November 24, 2014
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A most endearing story about two ill people and their chance encounter in life. Very well written.

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Reader writes, “my mother went through cancer treatment…”

Thank you Chasity Tarantino for reading my book and this very poignant, lovely review. I hope your mother is now doing well.

5.0 out of 5 stars Great read!, November 12, 2014
This review is from: His Name was Ben (Kindle Edition)
“His Name was Ben” was such a beautiful story. I was really touched by the characters and their situation. It is a story of heartache, pain, and tragedy, but it also showcases the love, hope, and strength that such pain can bring out in a person. Not only did I believe this story was amazing and the characters so strong, but it was written brilliantly.
I related to this story on a personal basis as well. My mother went through Cancer treatment in 2013 and the diagnosis was grim, reading ‘His Name was Ben’ brought back a lot of those feelings and experiences. I think anyone with a big heart will love this story and I believe it can be a really big eye opener for many who don’t have very much personal experience with Cancer.
This story is full of love, hope, faith, and trust. It’s a heart wrenching story that is ultimately beautiful in its despair. The characters were relatable and believable, the writing was on point. The backgrounds of these characters made their story even more potent.
An amazing read and I recommend it to everyone; you might want to get yourself a box of tissues to go with it though.
5.0 out of 5 stars I really enjoyed this book, November 13, 2014
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I really enjoyed this book.it reminded me that there is really love out there,and I hope with everything that is holy there will one day be a cure for cancer.five-star review all the way it really makes you think that some people have it worse than you.Thank you Paulette for writing this book.there is hope and love out there.
5.0 out of 5 stars I read this book and appreciated the great writing, the dialogue, November 16, 2014
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I am not a fan of romance novels, feeling that they are the stuff of fiction
and fantastical thinking, what’s portrayed in movies or fanciful
thinking. But, I read this book and appreciated the great writing,
the dialogue, especially around the dinner tables, yapping about past
Heisman trophy winners, etc. I also like the scenes where the characters
are living in the moment, just being, and must admit this author
knows how to write and write exceptionally well she does.
5.0 out of 5 stars Touching Love Story, November 16, 2014
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A story of courage and hope as Ben and Sara , two cancer patients, show that life can be full of surprises. Falling in love can bring a healing and aliveness in the face of death. This is a transformational book, a must read for anyone who feels afraid of illness and life’s “slings and arrows.”
It’s great to find an uplifting book on a depressing topic.
5.0 out of 5 stars Sara and Ben though each fighting their own battles with cancer found love and friendship in each other and an affirmation about, November 17, 2014
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His Name was Ben gripped me from the first paragraph and didn’t let go. Sara and Ben though each fighting their own battles with cancer found love and friendship in each other and an affirmation about life. Throughout the entire book, I hoped and prayed for a miracle. Reading it brought laughter, tears and hope that someday, somewhere there’ll be a cure. Ms. Mahurin’s writing style had the pages flying in my hands, before I knew, I finished the book. Her insight insight into the human mind and heart is a wonderful journey that left me uplifted.
5.0 out of 5 stars Thank you for making me remember my true passion., November 18, 2014
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What can I say. I spend most of my working life as an EMP so I saw more than most and loved helping others. I would still be doing that today if not for my daughter and the demands of domestic life.
What does that have to do with his name is Ben? Everything. I can see the author knows what she is talking about, that she is not afraid to talk about the truth of a disease that kills and the love story and hope although not the type one would expect from such a book truly moved me.
I love this book and think it is a must read for all, especially if you or a family member of close friend is suffering from cancer. It might give hope, but it is guaranteed to give you a better understanding of the disease.
5.0 out of 5 stars Emotionally charged, November 18, 2014
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This was book that was filled with the fight for life as well as romance and the courage to live. When Sara met Ben, it changed her world. Not just hers, but his as well. The strength and courage of the couple as they both battle the demon Cancer, was a very emotional and inspiring book. I read this book in one sitting and I highly recommend it to anyone who loves a good story. It’s full of emotions, not just ups and downs, but with just the characters trying to live and stay alive. Sometimes the best cure one can find is love.
4.0 out of 5 stars heart wrenching tale of love and friendship, December 8, 2014
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“His Name Was Ben”, by Paulette Mahurin is a tender, heart wrenching tale of love and friendship. Sara is battling an aggressive form of breast cancer when she meets Ben in the waiting room of her oncologists office. She is immediately drawn to him and surreptitiously gets his phone number. She has just entered a clinical trial for a new treatment for her cancer and is hopeful it will work.

Ben has been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer with only a 25 percent one year survival rate. He’s visiting the oncologist for a last-ditch effort at stopping the forward progress of the disease.

Sara and Ben end up going out on a date even though he is less than eager to start a relationship. They quickly become friends and then more. As they both struggle with their treatments they help each other work through emotional issues from their pasts.

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Snatching beauty from despair

Thank you to all who have purchased my book and taken the time to write a review. I’ve already sent two checks off to Canine Adoption Rescue League. ( http://carldogs.org/)  The tails they are a wagging! Very grateful for all who have helped.

5.0 out of 5 stars Snatching beauty from despair, November 5, 2014
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I don’t like sad endings. I prefer happy or fantastic stories. Strangely, this one is all three and it entertains in spectacular fashion.The story centers around a budding relationship between two cancer patients. Poignancy enough there to pull the heartstrings, but the author doesn’t go for the cheap win. Instead, there is such rich development, not just of the love story but of the inherent nature of love and bravery.Filled with lush descriptive narrative and insightful examination of motivations, both positive and ugly, there is so much contained within the story to engross the reader.It’s a rewarding read, with lessons about life that would be beneficial for all to pay attention to.
5.0 out of 5 stars Such conviction and heart felt love, November 11, 2014
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Wow Paulette has done it again, she has taken my breath away with this beautiful story about a couple that meet during their battle with Cancer. This is a love story about Living and Loving and accepting a life like no other. I just can’t imagine not shedding tears while reading this book. Sara, Ben and Tazzie(Sara’s dog) learn how to live in the face of death. I love Paulette’s writing because she writes with such conviction and heart felt love. I recommend this book to everyone out there. Please read and enjoy. Thank You Paulette for writing another amazing book.
5.0 out of 5 stars Make the journey worthwhile, November 6, 2014
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A beautifully written, tender and thought provoking story.
Sara and Ben, have family issues and a history of failed relationships, leaving them untrusting and aloof. As a couple they slowly take down their barriers as they learn to trust and live again. Together they have the courage to confront their past and make new memories.
“In accepting their fate and directing their attention to the real world as it moved moment to moment, they found inner peace, with each other and individually.”
The urgency of their love and need to live in the moment, free of past nightmares, is intensified as they met each other in an oncologist’s waiting room.
Like many others, my life has been turned upside down by the devastation of cancer, and I have a tendency to veer away from books, about the big, ‘C.’ But this book was about the deep connection between two people as they found the courage to be open, enjoy each moment as it came and make the journey worthwhile.
The characters were likeable and believable, as they made mistakes as they overcame their doubts and fears. I felt Sara’s pain when she thought she could never be desirable after her double mastectomy and realised she needed only one person to find her desirable to feel that way and let go of her inhibitions.
This book is an affirmation of life and not the sad book I feared it might be.
The message was clear, whether your journey is short or long, make it count.
I highly recommend this book to anyone and it is one I will re-visit in the future.
“…time isn’t measured by the clock, but by the moments of shared love.”
5.0 out of 5 stars A Romance you’ll Never Forget!, November 7, 2014
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Sarah Phillips is a cancer patient, a young woman who has been through a lot…mastectomies, chemotherapy, and more. She’s contemplating suicide. Her dog is her tether to sustenance, providing someone she cares for, and someone who loves her in the way that only a dear pet animal could. A last hope is presented to her in the form of a new cancer treatment study that is being done by a Dr. Zimmerman. In the office waiting room of Dr. Zimmerman’s practice she sees a young man, Ben, and finds to her surprise that she is interested in him. She’s close enough to see on some forms that he has provided his name and telephone number. She memorizes the number, and is able to write it down. The predicament of whether or not to call him is deftly dealt with by the author’s use of Sarah’s dialogue, both inner with herself, and outward with others. She finally calls him—the personal tone of the phone call and the deeply emotional undertones of their exchange are relayed to the reader dramatically through well-written dialogue. Anyone who has had a cancer diagnosis should read this book. Having personally been through a similar situation myself, I felt deeply for Sarah and Ben, and so will you when you read this lovely novel of a romance against all odds. (Review by Howard Lipman, pen name PanOrpheus, author of the alternate history, sci-fi fantasy ‘Delphic Oracle’ and Tesla’s Tower’ book series.)
5.0 out of 5 stars … Paulette’s previous book ‘The Persecution of Meldrene Dunlap’ and loved it. She worked her magic again in ‘His …, November 8, 2014
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I read Paulette’s previous book ‘The Persecution of Meldrene Dunlap’ and loved it. She worked her magic again in ‘His name was Ben’. A healing love story that everyone needs to read.
5.0 out of 5 stars 5 stars again to Paulette Mahurin, November 9, 2014
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I was pleasantly surprised by this book. I’m usually read non fiction or historical fiction, but having enjoyed Paulette Mahurin’s first book I thought I’d give this one a try.I found my self drawn in and committed to the book and the characters half way through the first chapter.The author has a way of making the characters seem so familiar, that it’s like I was sitting at the dinner table with my own family working out the big issues of American Life.

5 stars again to Paulette Mahurin

5.0 out of 5 stars Good read, good story and a great message, November 10, 2014
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At the beginning of this book, it seemed to me that the plot would spiral downwards to a tragic ending. But as the story unfolds it became clear that it is more about hope in the face of defeat. (These kinds of stories are always a favourite of mine)The author does a great job in her writing, always setting the scene and capturing my imagination enabling me to be able to empathise with the characters involved.

“His name was Ben” is a very real account of the feelings and journeys of two cancer patients finding hope in each other’s company and hope in their battle.

I found this to be a very inspirational read, and it was the first book that I have read by Paulette Mahurin. Her writing captured my attention from start to finish. Good read, good story and a great message.

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Forensic Psychiatrist Reviews His Name Was Ben

In a private e-mail to me this reviewer, real name changed by the reviewer, wrote that he made a mention about Sara’s brother(with schizophrenia) in the review. He felt he needed to make the statement here as he’s a “psychiatrist in his day job” and advocates to change the stigma of mental health. At the end of the review I commented (see below).
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His Name Was Ben is a sensitively written, well-characterised story about the effects of living with potentially terminal illness. It begins with the protagonist, Sara, a woman undergoing treatment for advanced breast cancer, receiving an invitation to participate in a trial for an experimental, possibly life-saving treatment. For Sara, this could be the last throw of the dice and her underlying anxieties are explored with great empathy. In her doctor’s waiting room, she sees, and is instantly drawn to Ben, a fellow patient, and what follows is the story of their developing relationship.At times gentle, at others angry and occasionally sensual, but never less than compelling, this is a very well-written book; in spite of the ostensibly bleak subject matter, I devoured this in a couple of sittings. Clearly, Mahurin knows how to craft a narrative and I’d frequently find myself wanting to read ‘just another chapter’ long after I should have turned in for the night. Partly, this is down to the skilful way she captures the tensions and resolutions of a burgeoning romance but she also introduces intriguing subplots about Ben and Sara’s respective backgrounds. Another strength lies in the believable characters. Sara’s mother, in particular, is brilliantly drawn; initially an all-too recognisable grotesque, she evolves into something much more rounded as the book progresses.SPOILER?: I do, unfortunately, have one reservation about the book and it revolves around the depiction of Sara’s brother. He’s identified early on as a sufferer of schizophrenia and then viewed only through the prism of others perspective of him. Eventually, it becomes clear why Sara harbours such conflicted feelings towards him but until this revelation, it just feels like more stigma and the views jar a little in an otherwise sympathetic character. (I should perhaps declare an interest here. In my day job, I work in forensic mental health and I see combating stigma as part of my responsibility. Schizophrenia is as much a disease as the illnesses which effect the characters in this book and we need parity between mental and physical health. This case is somewhat different as the brother’s character flaws are presumably independent of his condition but it’s never quite clear that clear that Sara sees it like that).Mahurin is particularly skilled at portraying the mixture of doubt and potentially futile hope her characters struggle with. According to her bio, the author is a Nurse Practitioner, and she’s channelled her experiences into producing a powerful and believable story.
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Thank you, Etienne Hannratty, for reading my book and this very thoughtful review. I’m grateful for your feedback.As you’ve expressed your concern about the stigma of schizophrenia, please let me address this as well. The story line was written from the perspectives of the characters, some drawn on real conversations and others advanced through fiction. The point you make is very significant and important. I also write about and try to lift stigma, about mental illness, about preference (my first book centered around homophobia, anti-sematism, and racism) etc. As the story progresses and Sara gains some distance from her own traumatized past, she comes to realize and expresses to Ben, “He’s ill…” (referring to her brother) and further on the conversations about the brother being on medications and doing well is brought into the story, showing I concur with you that schizophrenia is as much a disease as the illnesses… To have written this any other way would not have reflected the character accurately and honestly.
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5.0 out of 5 stars A Story of Two Bonafide Super Heroes, October 25, 2014
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In this world of too many questionable, and even fallen, heroes, what a pleasure it is to discover two genuine heroes, even if they do only live in the pages of a book. In this case, however, the champions are real because His Name Was Ben by award-winning and best-selling author Paulette Mahurin is based on a true story. Once again, Mahurin has embraced a difficult, an uncomfortable topic, which seems her modus operandi as an author, an approach from which many authors shy away, especially when so new to the literary world. Check out her critically acclaimed first novel The Persecution of Mildred Dunlap to test the veracity of my assertion.Ben and Sara, both receiving treatment for end-stage cancer by the same oncologist, are the stars of this impeccably-written and easy-to-read novel of love and of discovery of the joy and fulfillment available in living in the moment, which, as Mahurin reminds us, is all we are promised anyway. Despite the specter of death overhanging them, Ben and Sara choose to live each moment of their remaining days, and the path they choose for their shared journey is a story that will keep the reader transfixed and rooting for these two indomitable people. This was just the right book for me to read at this time in my life because it nudged me toward counting my blessings rather than lamenting my losses. It is a lesson in attitude adjustment, in embracing a healthier, a more generous and compassionate perspective. It is ultimately a lesson of redemption found through love.I cannot leave this page without writing more about Paulette Mahurin. I don’t know her personally. I wish I did. I only know her through our mutual cyber-connection as authors of books. But I don’t mind saying that I am in awe of her gallantry, as a writer, and as a person. She forges ahead in her writing without a hitch—there are no awkward pauses for the right word, the logical consequence, the best concept, all of which are telltale signs of an author unsure of her topic, or harboring uncertainties about it, or even prejudices against it. If her work was lacking wisdom, it would be easy to think her an innocent, for her consciousness seems childlike in that it has avoided being afflicted by prejudice and other cruelties of the adult world. But far from innocent, I’m sure she is. I suspect that instead, her soul and heart have been purified by the fires of her own life, and of those others for whom she cares so deeply. Many of her most precious loved-ones are animals, dogs specifically—attested to by the fact that the profits from His Name Was Ben go directly to the rescuing of dogs from kill shelters and other rescue efforts. Just think, your purchase of this remarkable book will save the life of a dog. That is a blessing worth counting.Other recent reviews:

5.0 out of 5 stars An Emotional Story of Fight with Cancer., October 27, 2014
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This is the story of Sara, a nurse practitioner, who is also undergoing treatment for Cancer. She meets Ben, a lawyer working for NASA, at the cancer hospital. She gets attracted to him even though she guesses him also having cancer. They become friends and share the stories of their families. They find out that besides cancer they have one more thing in common, disturbed childhood. They try to help each other and get so emotionally and physically attached to each other within few days that they decide to marry even when they knew that they may be having only a few months to live. For them living the life, whatever was left of it, was important than worrying over the inevitable. The story of both cancer patients and their disturbed childhood is so full of emotions and so well presented that you want Ben to live somehow miraculously as you read the book, even though the book title ‘His name was Ben’ keeps you telling that he will not survive in the end. I liked reading this emotional story and recommend reading it to anyone for an inspiration to seek and find the happiness in life even if you are facing any kind of troubles with life.
5.0 out of 5 stars If you want to read schmaltzy love stories, this is not for you, October 27, 2014
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If you want to read schmaltzy love stories, this is not for you.If you want to read about how to start living, when you are dying, then Paulette Mahurin’s His Name was Ben, is just the story for you.While death is ever present in the book, it’s treated very maturely and the book is a love story of two strong people who do not fill their lives with self pity, rather they seize the moment and start loving.And start living.Strongly recommended. Mahurin is an author to watch out for.

Her stories are real, different and immerse you in their depth.

 

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5.0 out of 5 stars Compelling and Sensitive, October 27, 2014
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I stayed up late reading about two very intriguing characters. It was worth it, on so many levels! Gorgeous Ben and curious Sara meet in the waiting room of a doctor who’s a cancer specialist. They’re attracted to one another in the midst of their own personal traumas. Their amazing relationship gave me a whole new appreciation for the various types of challenges and dimensions two very different types of cancer can pose for those who struggle with them. I’ve become sensitized to the struggles of cancer patients both psychologically and physically after reading the descriptions that Mahurin puts forth in this beautiful story. She’s a talented writer who can weave fact with fiction to pull the reader along in just the right way. The author is a nurse practitioner and works with women who have cancer. She knows the range of treatments explored in this novel as well as the social, physical and psychological struggles of those who confront the disease. She’s done a masterful job of making a very sober topic come to life in a sensitive and compelling manner. The love story between Ben and Sara added a wonderful dimension to Mahurin’s complex exploration of a very delicate topic. It’s also a tear jerker (like another popular novel out just now) but in a good way. If you liked The Fault in our Stars, you’ll also come to love His Name was Ben. Loved it!
5.0 out of 5 stars Amazing and Intriguing love story, October 28, 2014
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This is an intriguing romance novel full of hope and love. It is dear, sweet, tender love story about real issues that touch people’s lives.It is a blessing to see that there are still doctors out there passionate about their patients and their treatment. Having been in the opposite situation many times, I too can relate to such a kind and caring doctor, and what a difference it makes.I love how in spite of the seriousness of her condition, Sara is able to see the light and continue to find interest and joy in ordinary things like dating. I love how Ben is able to fully love Sara through and through inside and out despite what she sees as disfigurement from a double mastectomy.

Ben and Sara both found it in their hearts to love one another fully and to give freely of themselves to one another despite the fact that they were both dealing with physical, mental, and spiritual pain of their own. In doing so, they helped one another through some of the hardest times life had to offer.

This book reminds us to live every moment to the fullest, as if it is our last. It also reminds us to love unconditionally. Also, “Man’s best Friend”, holds true even through this book as Tazzie captures the hearts of the readers.

5.0 out of 5 stars Tazzie the Rottweiler brought a sweet note of unconditional love to this beautiful story, October 28, 2014
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A tender tale about living in the moment when it looks as though all the sand is swiftly running from the hourglass. Tazzie the Rottweiler brought a sweet note of unconditional love to this beautiful story. Reading Sara’s experiences touched me on a personal level as well. I recommend.
5.0 out of 5 stars Beautifully written, October 31, 2014
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I came across this book by Paulette Mahurin by accident and was drawn in first by the cover then by the free excerpt. I am so glad that happened!! I LOVED this tender, sweet story that was full of passion, life and love. The author is very colorful in describing a touching relationship between two people stricken with cancer who love each other freely and completely. I found myself getting wrapped up in their lives and rooting for them with all my might. I also adored how she kept all of this real and included a beloved four legged friend, Tazzie. I would highly recommend this book! You won’t put it down as Ms Mahurin is a very talented author that takes you on a journey sure to pull at your heart strings. I can’t get these characters out of my head now…. What a beautiful journey. I’m so glad I found this beautiful & intelligently written, touching story filled with hope. Truly inspiring.
5.0 out of 5 stars Life is precious, November 2, 2014
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What a wonderful book on what it is to be alive, fully alive, despite all reasons one might have to dwell on what was or what will be. To be diagnosed with cancer and have this open the door to love and a deep meaningful relationship certainly gives one hope that it’s never too late, to love, to live. This is a book to be read and reread. And cherished for it’s message on how precious life is.
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A reminder of life’s fragile nature and the luck we’ve been given to be alive!

5.0 out of 5 stars A reminder of life’s fragile nature and the luck we’ve been given to be alive!, October 22, 2014
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Ms Mahurin is developing quite a reputation for thoughtfully tackling subjects most writer would not touch. And she does it with extraordinary compassion, imbuing her characters with sometimes disturbing reality, truth and perceptivness as she makes the reader’s heart bleed (in the case of …Ben) and cheer (….Mildred Dunlap) all the while translating pain into strength and dignity.It is a gift that many authors only play at. You know the ones. It’s something about authenticity and wisdom. Ms Mahurin has it. Along with a beautiful and lyrical ability to spin her tale with intelligence and pristine editing.I felt conected to Sara and Ben so much that I couldn’t stop the tears. The book is based on real people and I would so love to find out how “Sarah” is making out today. BTW, I loved the delivery in the ending…straight forward and dignified, creating all the more emotion by avoiding the overwrought and obvious. Just perfect.

5.0 out of 5 stars … of book I normally read but I am very pleased that I took the time to do just that, October 24, 2014
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I’ll be honest to start – this isn’t the kind of book I normally read but I am very pleased that I took the time to do just that.The book is a love story but so different to the usual slush that (in my professional capacity) I read only so far because I can’t finish them. No so this one and the book stayed with me long after the last page. I will not spoil the story by giving it away but here are two people who really deserve each other; both have major psychological issues who, because they are together – selflessly (the essence of real love), work through them.There are always minor niggles with a book but they really are too small to mention and they are down to us each having a different writing style and the cultural differences between the English speaking world. Vive la difference is what I would say.A rich book with strong characters and I admit to a dampness in the corner of the eye as I finished the book. No, not a tear, not me ;)

5.0 out of 5 stars Touching and heartfelt!, October 24, 2014
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Paulette Mahurin’s Ben is a wonderful novel. The story of Sara, Ben and her dog, Tazzie started off sad and tragic, but it quickly changed. Imagine, if you will, being attracted to a man while you were fighting the big C. That the kind of story Mahurin has written. From the get go, I was drawn into the story and the lives of these unfortunate people who were both fighting cancer. The author left nothing to chance but takes you on a journey of life’s unfortunate circumstances, which in the end we cannot change, but we must learn to accept that which is inevitable. This is a wonderful story about living, loving and dying, with the underlying theme of hope—where there’s life, there’s always hope. Enjoy!
5.0 out of 5 stars A Very Deeply Touching Story of Love and Reconciliation, October 25, 2014
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I have never read such a deeply emotional and touching book. The author perfectly weaves a story of true love of two people undaunted by their fight with cancer, to make the most of the time they have together. Sad but ultimately uplifting in the triumph of the human spirit, this book has my highest recommendation. A+
5.0 out of 5 stars Great book, October 26, 2014
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This book was very deep and heart wrenching yet filled with a lot of hope. I was reminded of times that I had forgotten about and it got painful to read at times (the writing was amazing, the subject matter just hit me hard). We meet two great people in Sarah and Ben and the author does a great job taking us through their journey. Cancer is a very painful subject to write about and it’s sometimes hard to nail it but it was nailed right here. A great book and worthy of the five stars that I’ve given it.
5.0 out of 5 stars Bittersweet and moving!, October 26, 2014
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This memorable romance involves two cancer survivors in their fifties; Ben and Sara, who find their own personal baggage more daunting than dealing with their disease. Sara lives alone, but has a true friend named Ellen and an awesome rescue dog called Tazzie. Sara finds the courage to approach a man called Ben who she meets at her doctor’s clinic. What unfolds is lovely, meandering tale about two soul-mates, who, though being dealt a bad hand in life, learn that life is what you make it and relish every minute together. I felt this was a timely novel which advocates that each day is precious and that true love must neither be wasted nor overlooked. The writing was crisp and vivid, bringing to life the entirety of not only the main character’s emotions and struggles, but the landscape of Southern California and particularly Ojai, nestled near Santa Barbara. This is one of the best books I’ve read in a long time and will ponder its message often in future days. Highly recommended.
5.0 out of 5 stars is also a love song and powerfully shows us the magic and healing …, October 26, 2014
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I just finished reading ‘His Name Was Ben’, by Paulette Mahurin. The story, touching on the strength one needs in dealing with Cancer, is also a love song and powerfully shows us the magic and healing of real love. I would recommend this novel to anyone wanting not only a great read but a little insight into perhaps how to better deal with and be at peace with some of the tougher aspects of being human. Very nicely done.
5.0 out of 5 stars Charming and beautiful, raw and emotional, November 2, 2014
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As with her first book, The Persecution of Mildred Pierce, I couldn’t put down author Paulette Mahurin’s second novel His Name was Ben. And as with her first book, the characters’ unique situations and troubling circumstances are told in a genuine, relatable manner, pulling the reader in and changing his or her perspective on the subject matter.

We follow Sara’s character through her challenges with cancer treatment, as well as the challenges she faces with her distant, dysfunctional family. She meets Ben and a love affair blossoms, even with the knowledge that it’s on borrowed time. Ben has his own family demons to face, and the fact that he chooses to do so for Sara proves just how much he loves her. At the end, Ben makes peace with the reality that he will never have a normal relationship with his parents, a totally relatable experience for those of us who have had to come to realize the same.

Charming and beautiful, raw and emotional, I highly suggest this novel. All the profits from her books go to help rescue dogs, something very close to the author’s heart.

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5.0 out of 5 stars A VERY MOVING WEEPIE, 25 Oct 2014
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I’M NOT NORMALLY A READER OF WEEPIES, BUT THE MORE I READ THIS BOOK ABOUT THE LOVE AFFAIR OF TWO CANCER PATIENTS, THE MORE ENGROSSED I BECAME. BEING A MAN, I CAN ONLY IMAGINE A WOMAN GOES THROUGH FROM A DOUBLE MASTECTOMY, BUT TO OVERCOME THIS AND TO FIND LOVE WITH BEN, WAS A TRIUMPH OF THE HUMAN SPIRIT. ALONG THE WAY WE GET TO MEET MEMBER’S OF SARA’S LESS THAN PERFECT FAMILY, WHICH HELPS THE STORY MOVE ALONG. LOVED THE DOG TAZZIE, WHO ALSO HELPS BRING THIS STORY TOGETHER. NEVER CORNY, OR SOPPY, THIS BOOK MOVED ME PROFOUNDLY, AND IF I’D BEEN ON MY OWN AT THE END, I MIGHT HAVE EVEN SHED A TEAR OR TWO.
5.0 out of 5 stars stunning love story, 26 Oct 2014
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I thoroughly enjoyed this book and found it so easy to read, so much so that I read it in one go! I loved Sara and her compassion and her tolerance of her mother, I loved her strength and her vulnerability and her courage to pursue love! The love interest Ben was sweet. I wanted to kick their parents’ asses! Ellen was great. And Tazzie was so cute! It made me wish I had a dog! Overall, it was a great read and was believable and then I remembered it was based on a true story which only made the story even more authentic and enjoyable. A must read!
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Miracles happen even if they are only in your mind and heart

I received this from Fran Lewis (her bio at the end of the review) this morning. It’s long, has spoilers, and is an honor to receive from this highly acclaimed woman. I’m deeply grateful for this.

His Name Was Ben: Paulette Mahurin

Life carries with it many obstacles, changes and roadblocks that are often insurmountable to overcome. Finding someone to share your inner most thoughts, wishes and desires with can take more than a lifetime or happen just by chance. The circle of life has no beginning or end depending on your outlook. But, what happens when you are thrown a serious curve ball that will send you into a downward spiral and falling into a chasm that you might never come out of? Love is defined as a profoundly, tender, passionate affection for another person according to Dictionary.com. The love of a parent for a child is different than the love of husband for his wife. Author Paulette Mahurin takes the reader inside the hearts, minds, fears, insecurities and hopes of two special people: Sara Phillips and Ben Gottlieb whose time on this earth might be limited but whose zest for life will live on forever.

Sara and Ben meet in a very different way. Both are cancer patients under the care of a wonderful doctor named Zimmerman. A special study and program has been created to help terminal patients find a possible way to slow down the illness or if lucky go into remission. This is their story and your will hear their words, understand their hopes and fears and realize that not everything is always Happily Ever After but sometimes you can have that Cinderella Love and Wedding!

Sara and Ben start off on a rocky path as Sara’s best friend Ellen encourages her to make the first move. Well, she did copy his phone number while he was filling out the paperwork for the study. How ingenious is that! First impressions made over the phone are not always the best but Sara forges ahead and manages to convince Ben to meet her. But, let’s not forget the other real star of the novel: Tazzie the Rottweiler who will steal your heart and who is Sara’s mainstay or security dog keeping her centered and safe.

Sara was a nurse practitioner diagnosed with breast cancer, the aggressive type. Just hearing the words can rip a person apart and the treatment alone plus the radical surgery changed her life forever but not her will to live and her perspective to find real love. Sara might have this horrific illness but what is even more compelling are the dreams that she shares with readers and the knowledge that something happened to her that her mother did not prevent although she tried. A brother that is mentally ill and his nightly trips into his sister’s room are the center of her nightmares and dreams. But, where was anyone to comfort her and why did her mother hide the truth for so long. With her father ill having two heart attacks not privileged to a lot of what she was going through, a mother who is critical, hard to get along with, super cold and unyielding, Sara only has her special dog and Ellen to comfort her when things get tough and they do. But, she is not the only one with a family that is dysfunctional and cold. When getting to know Ben the author allows readers to understand why he is distant from an abusive father and a mother who does not come to his aide. With his brother Michael, a doctor and his sister-in-law Candace Ben have all the support he needs until Sara.

Good insurance is great and access to the best doctors even better when a new research program creating a new trial drugs for this type of cancer. Both seriously ill but his quite grave as Sara experiences some changes allowing her to want more than just a passing friendship with Ben and igniting her innermost woman! The object of her desires Ben.

Things progress in a different way after Sara fails to meet Ben when in an accident before their first meeting. But, barriers are lifted and their friendship blooms and the author brings to light that living everyday and loving life is what keeps them both centered and going. Never yielding to their illnesses, going for treatment we experience with Sara the up’s, down’s failures and successes that both she and Ben experience. As their honesty with each other broadens and they promise to be “ honest but sensitive, and stay open to conversation,” the dam bursts, their love can bloom and an amazing world opens up for them even for just a short time.

Ben’s parents live by the liquor bottle; Sara grew up with a mother that enjoyed being in control critical, cold and a brother who was schizophrenic and an ex-husband that made things worse. Sara realized that cancer might be an obstacle she might or might not overcome but being with Ben just might negate all the rest.

This is a story about relationships past and present. Two people that find love embrace it and work out their problems in order to explore life together. As you read more you will learn just what both Sara and Ben experience when going through the many medical tests, shots and treatments and understand why Pancreatic Cancer is so deadly the toll it took on his body and the reason why more research and funding is needed.

Miracles happen even if they are only in your mind and heart. Is there such a thing as a miracle cure? One can only hope that there will be someday. The new treatment is valuable but just how much time does it give them both?

When the harsh realities set in Sara and Ben decide to take the next step. A love story that transcends all time, place and allows readers to know just how precious life is and to what lengths some will go to in order to live. Ben learns to trust Sara and Sara learn to open up to Ben. But, will they share their pasts and understand and come to grips it? When Sara confronts her mother about Jack what happens will surprise readers and help them understand her actions. When Ben and Sara’s father have a talk tears will come to your eyes as this wonderful young man is accepted into this family and her father takes a step that most would not. Can she talk to her father and tell him about Jack? Is he really that ill or will the truth make him stronger?

A final diagnosis that sets a chain of events in motion that will give both Sara and Ben a special time together to enjoy the outdoors, Tazzie and watch Orion Twinkle. An ending that was so touching, sad, heartfelt and endearing and a reviewer who used up two boxes of tissues just to finish reading the last chapter.

HIS NAME WAS BEN! The impact on Sara’s life will stay with her forever. The love of this man will never die as she remembers their life together, looks at Orion and remembers his poem that you can read on page 223. Friendships, loyalties, trust, hope, unity, family doubts and relationships are just some of the issues that this book addresses. Author Paulette Mahurin once again created a story so profound, compelling and honest that many will learn from reading it, others will regain some hope and readers will come away understanding the true meaning of LOVE OF LIFE!

Fran Lewis: reviewer

Fran Lewis

Reviewer Fran Lewis: Fran worked in the NYC Public Schools as the Reading and Writing Staff Developer for over 36 years. She has three masters degrees and a PD in Supervision and Administration. Currently. She is a member of Who’s Who of America’s Teachers and Who’s Who of America’s Executives from Cambridge. In addition, she is the author of three children’s books and a fourth Alzheimer’s book is Memories are Precious: Alzheimer’s Journey: Ruth’s story in honor of her mom. Fran hopes to create more awareness for a cure of Alzheimer.
She was also the musical director for shows in her school and ran the school’s newspaper. Fran writes reviews for authors upon request and for several other sites. You can read some of my reviews on Ezine.com and on ijustfinished under the name Gabina. Follow Here To Listen to Fran’s Radio Show and Here

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A Manly Man ~ truly

The Persecution of Mildred Dunlap:

This reminds me of Ben and Sara, the couple I worked with way back the, the couple who are the subject of my new book, the couple who inspired me to laugh in the face of devastation and be inspired as long as my heart beats and my lungs will with oxygen. This is a two minute and forty-two second video that will forever live in your heart. One act of kindness, one moment of deep inspiration, one thing seen through the eyes of a child exploring the miracles that abound, and our lives are never the same. I love Huntie, who I am reblogging from. If you stop by and meet her, you’ll love her as well.

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His Name Was Ben and Her Name is Paulette Mahurin

The Persecution of Mildred Dunlap:

My sweet new cyber sister, Lorna, has done (& edited, wink wink) and interview with me and my new book, His Name Was Ben. She, herself, is a great writer, has two books out, and has a blog that’s one of my favorites. She’s a gifted comic and woman.

Originally posted on Lorna's Voice:

You're not gonna want to miss a word of what I'm hearing!

You’re not gonna want to miss a word of what I’m hearing!

Are you ready for another dizzy blonde interview with an accomplished author-blogger?

Too bad. I know you’re already hooked because of my dizzy blondeness and her literary famosity.

A mixture like ours is kersplosive…in a good way.

Hang on! This is no ordinary blah-blah interview.

Hang on! This is no ordinary blah-blah fall-asleep-in-your-chair interview.

I kept this interview short because Paulette is one busy person. Actually, she’s more like three busy people. Just take a gander (look) at her part of her bio:

Semi-retired, she continues to work part-time as a Nurse Practitioner in Ventura County. When she’s not writing, she does pro-bono consultation work with women with cancer, works in the Westminister Free Clinic as a volunteer provider, volunteers as a mediator in the Ventura County Courthouse for small claims cases, and involves herself, along with her husband, in dog rescue.

And she has a

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The Wait is Over! “Never Turn Back” is Never Turning Back!

The Persecution of Mildred Dunlap:

I love this author’s writing, blogsite, big heart, and now her second book is out and it’s a great read. Have a hop over to her site to check it out.

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Yeah, I'm that happy. Hope you will be, too!

Yeah, I’m that happy. Hope you will be, too!

I’ve been talking about this novel for a long time.

The wait is finally over.

The Kindle version of Never Turn Back is available NOW.

Yes, you heard me. NOW.

If you want to know a bit about the book, check out the new page I put up on this blog dedicated to the book.

Hover your cursor over the picture of the book on the side bar, and you’ll be linked to the Amazon page.

Aren’t I quite the slick marketer?

Now the hard part begins (at least for me). Marketing the book while I’m getting ready to move across the country.

Marketing is hard enough for a highly sensitive person like me. Add the stress of a move, and, well, I’m about as glued together as runny oatmeal.

Ever feel like this? Then you know how I feel.

Ever feel like this? Then you know how I feel.

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His Name Was Ben Amazon Rank: #8 Best Seller Kindle Store

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A huge thank you to everyone who has purchased the book, written a review, or spread the word about this book. The first check was mailed to help rescue dogs.

5.0 out of 5 stars When “What If” Becomes “Why Not”, October 12, 2014
This review is from: His Name was Ben (Paperback)
The good news is feeling an instant chemistry with the handsome man sitting next to you in a waiting room. The bad news is that the waiting room is in a hospital and both of you are oncology patients with uncertain futures. Such is the premise of author Paulette Mahurin’s compelling and bittersweet new novel, “His Name Was Ben.” The storyline strikes a particularly poignant chord with me these days as one of my dearest friends is currently going through her second bout with cancer. “I can get through all the chemo, the nausea, the fatigue, and wearing wigs,” she told me the first time, “if it means I’ll be done with all of it by this time next year.” Unfortunately, such was not the case. “I completely trust my doctors,” she said a few weeks ago, “but frankly this whole chemo thing is really getting old.” Mahurin’s likable protagonist, Sara, aptly captures the angst of a beautiful and accomplished woman who is as stressed about dying as she is about living, specifically if “living” not only involves dealing with a cruelly dysfunctional family but also an understandable reluctance to actively re-enter the dating pool if it means revealing to prospective dates that her body is no longer “whole.” For women who are still single or divorced, a double mastectomy is a death sentence in and of itself, especially if having breasts is equated with society’s definition of sexuality and desirability. Yes, that handsome man in the waiting room was exciting enough for Sara to surreptitiously note his name and phone number but can she muster the courage to actually call him and introduce herself? It’s her best friend, Ellen, who pushes Sara to take a chance, for certainly Fate has put “Ben” in Sara’s orbit for a reason. Ben, however, is as wary of romantic encounters as Sara. When their first “date” channels “An Affair To Remember” and Sara fails to show up, it’s little wonder that Ben assumes he has been set up for some kind of sick joke and that his caller was never serious. The fragile relationship that starts to unfold will have readers reaching for Kleenex on more than one occasion. Mahurin’s expertise as a nurse practitioner makes every scene resonate with accuracy, as does her knowledge of Southern California and the Central Coast which serve as the backdrop for the story. And what book isn’t made all the better with the presence of a dog – Taz – who teaches the bipeds a thing or two about unconditional love and the joys of living in the moment instead of apologizing for the past or fearing for the future. (Profits from Mahurin’s books go to help rescue dogs.) The story is also not without villains in the form of Sara and Ben’s respective family members who are themselves among the walking wounded that can only react to life’s disappointments with vitriolic anger, self-loathing, and accusations that loved ones were obviously predisposed to contract diseases because of things they did – or didn’t – do. A first-rate read from a first-rate author whose wordsmithing I admire and whose passion for storytelling comes deeply from the heart and soul.
5.0 out of 5 stars Read it! – and this very special book will stay in your heart for a very long time., October 21, 2014
This review is from: His Name was Ben (Kindle Edition)
An extremely brave subject to tackle, but done with dignity, compassion and style. This book is so well-observed that it is impossible not to be able to relate to it on so many different levels even without having experienced the terrifying subject matter itself.The story centres around two people who are facing the unthinkable and whisks you away on an emotional roller-coaster which will have you laughing and crying but most importantly routing for the pair who show us what life is really all about.

This book and author really deserves some serious attention and I so hope that it receives it. In the mean time, I can’t recommend it highly enough. Read it! – and it will stay in your heart for a very long time.

5.0 out of 5 stars Love Speaks Loudest, October 20, 2014
This review is from: His Name was Ben (Kindle Edition)
Mahurin’s talent is her ability to be realistic and not pull any punches without getting lost in the drama and drowning the reader. When a couple spend the short time they have together trying to tackle the beginning of love and the end of life, at the same time, sometimes in the same day, it can seem surreal. It would be easy to overwhelm the reader with pain and sorrow instead of showing them that real people still live real lives under horrendous circumstances.There’s little I can add to the details since the other lengthy reviews cover so many aspects of the book. It’s really necessary to leave some surprises for the reader. The key word in some of the other reviews is fictionalized. This work is based on a true story, which makes it all the more poignant. If you ever wanted to really walk in someone else’s shoes, Mahurin does an excellent job of taking her readers on that journey.

Cancer tears down many things when it ravages lives, but for this couple love speaks loudest. For them, the risks are worth the challenges because there are no guarantees of another chance to do even the mundane things of daily life. They don’t have the luxury of avoiding facing their mortality. They can’t live in denial for years either. They have a choice, live today, in the present, or miss what may be the last chance to live fully.

Most importantly, they love enough to let go and respect the other person’s wishes. There’s a wonderful lesson in there for all of us who will inevitably face final decisions with loved ones, regardless of the cause.

At my request, Ms. Mahurin provided a copy to me to review. I read and reviewed her other book and when I saw this book, I asked to read and review it. I have to say her work always surpasses my highest hopes and still improves. I’m looking forward to reading more by Mahurin.

5.0 out of 5 stars A Must Read, October 15, 2014
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His Name Was Ben by Paulette Mahurin 4.5 Stars His Name Was Ben is an extremely moving story about two cancer sufferers who meet through their illness and form a relationship. It does read like an adult version of John Green’s The Fault in Our Stars, which is still fresh in my mind and lost the book half a star for originality. Written with compassion this book does not make light of the horrors of the disease, it is heartfelt and though not gory, it does cover the less than pleasant emotional and physical suffering patients go through. This story serves as a reminder to everyone that tomorrow, even an hour from now, is not guaranteed for any of us and that we should live while we are alive no matter our circumstances. I came away from the read feeling enriched and positive even though the book covers a very sad and scary subject. Paulette Mahurin is without doubt a fantastic writer, I listened to this story while doing the garden and was so immersed in the book that I covered three days worth of trimming, weeding and mowing in one day, and didn’t stop until the book was finished! This is a read that I recommend to everyone, whatever your preferred genre, its compelling, insightful, written with empathy and understanding and is a must read for all. Copy supplied for review
5.0 out of 5 stars Very poignant and touching., October 12, 2014
This review is from: His Name was Ben (Kindle Edition)
I loved how the two main characters met though it was probably for the worst reasons. There’s probably a lot better places to meet someone special than at an oncologists office though Sara and Ben are perfect for one another. They both come from dysfunctional families and have managed to make the best of it through the years. Cancer is a very insidious disease and it instantly brings up fearful images for most. I don’t know how to describe it otherwise and it’s central to the story line. In many places I wanted to cry.
4.0 out of 5 stars Can love conquer cancer?, October 16, 2014
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Stage four breast cancer has Sara Phillips planning an exit strategy from life when an experimental drug protocol pulls her back from the brink of death. As she grabs onto the thread of hope and struggles with her damaged self image, a chance encounter in the oncologist’s waiting room brings her in touch with a handsome stranger who rekindles the woman in Sara she thought was gone. Sara peeks at his new-patient form, learns the man’s name is Ben, and memorizes his phone number. Newly diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, Ben is told his life may end in a few months. In the face of death and against all odds, the two fall in love and grab on to life.”His Name Was Ben” is author Paulette Mahurin’s fictionalized account of the story of two real people who faced the reality of cancer and chose to live in love, no matter how much time they had. Together, they face the demons of their dysfunctional families and gain peace of mind.This poignant story offers readers the opportunity to experience the roller coaster of emotions surrounding cancer, to see how love can replace despair and how caring for someone else can help ease one’s own pain.”His Name Was Ben” is relevant for anyone who has faced a life-threatening illness, while carrying an important message of love and hope for all readers.

5.0 out of 5 stars Still Batting 1000!, October 18, 2014
This review is from: His Name was Ben (Paperback)
I read Ms. Mahurin’s first book, The Persecution of Mildred Dunlap, giving it a 5 star review, highly impressed with her grasp of character under duress. His Name Was Ben goes farther and deeper, dealing with the often terrifying concept of personal mortality, the extinction of life, while still trying to live with both positive and negative relationships, memories and the detritus of everyday living. Add to that, the very poweful desire to live each moment better and create something new, powerful, loving and lasting while the Grim Reaper is constantly in the foreground, these make for great writing on Ms. Mahurin’s part.I won’t go into the storyline, as that has been stated elsewhere in these reviews. But her handling of the characters’ relationships with parents, siblings and friends, is especially poignant and very real. She draws us in, making us feel and understand what the two protagonists are going through, but also revealing the good and bad parts of the background players, each of whom contributes much to the story.As with her first book, this one cries out for a good film script! 

5.0 out of 5 stars Beautiful, October 20, 2014
This review is from: His Name was Ben (Paperback)
This isn’t my usual genre that I read but I was gripped from the first chapter. I was rooting for Sara from the start. Such a well written and honest work! I was gripped and as the tale unfolded I couldn’t stop. The romantic in me really wished and wished for what would be a happy ending and I feel the way in which the author told the story left me satisfied, yet emotionally drained. It’s rare to find a story that you are so invested and that’s so well and sensitively written that can make someone connect and feel such emotion. I felt like I was with Sara and Ben every step of the way, experiencing all the ups and downs that the circumstances brought. What else can I say but wow!
5.0 out of 5 stars A satisfying read about an unpleasant topic., October 31, 2014
This review is from: His Name was Ben (Kindle Edition)
Ben, a forty year old man, loses his battle with cancer. During the last year of life, he meets Sara, a cancer patient and woman of his dreams. Uncertainty of time drives their appreciation of every precious minute.

The author accomplishes two major tasks: describing the ugliness of cancer, while writing a beautiful story of human emotion. Ben and Sara fight their disease with extraordinary courage. Friends and family issues come to the surface, resembling real life.

His Name was Ben by Paulette Mahurin is a book for all ages. Covering the hard knocks of life and the importance of compassionate relations create for a satisfying read about an unpleasant topic.

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ROTTIE TAZZIE MADE IT TO A READER’S REVIEW

For those of you have been following my blog for a while you know that it was the loss of my 15+ year old rottweiler, one of the great loves of my life, that inspired me to donate all profits from my first book to the first and only no-kill shelter in Ventura County ( http://www.santapaulaarc.org/). The profits from His Name Was Ben are going to Canine Adoption Rescue League ( http://carldogs.org/)

Photo on 2010-12-23 at 19.53

Portrait I painted of Tazzie when she was a teenager. She was a purebred rottie sold through a pet store to a couple who had her a month or two and brought her to a kill shelter when she was hit by a truck and broke her femur. It was an aligned fracture, easy to fix, and so me the nurse went to walk dogs one day and brought her home. That leg never bothered her into the ripe old age of 15+. She’s a prominent character in my new book, His Name Was Ben. A special homage to one of the great loves of my life.

Press article about my relationship with Tazzie and profits to dogs:
http://www.vcstar.com/news/2012/sep/08/ojai-authors-historical-novel-teaches-tolerance/

5.0 out of 5 stars Heartwarming Love Story with a Dog!!! Fantastic!, October 10, 2014
This review is from: His Name was Ben (Paperback)
His Name was Ben by Paulette Mahurin surprised me only because I am not easily drawn to stories about illness, especially cancer patients. I guess they touch a little too close to home for me so, my tendency is to run in the other direction. I didn’t do that this time. The story drew me in right away as we are introduced to Sara and her beloved Rottweiler, Tazzie. We discover that Sara has been treated for breast cancer and is being accepted into a new and promising study by her oncologist, Dr. Zimmerman. While in the waiting room she sees Ben, another patient (pancreatic) and is immediately attracted to him in spite of their unconventional circumstances. She memorizes Ben’s phone number as he fills out his information form and eventually gets the courage to call him. Sara talks all of this over with her best friend, Ellen, just as the author also gives us glimpses into Sara’s home life (her mother is a grouse and her brother is a schizophrenic) The good news for the reader is that Sara, Ellen and Ben are extremely likable characters so as the story continues we can’t help but sympathize with them and the situation at hand. I got a particular kick out of Sara’s increasing libido as her cancer drugs were working! There were even a few moments where it got a little racy ~ go Sara! The story is told with great compassion and authenticity as medical information is revealed just as if it were real life. (Mahurin is a nurse and it shows in her writing)
But, this isn’t a typical love store between two cancer patients. There is another layer here that really made the book stand out and capture my heart. The awesome inclusion of the dog, Tazzie buffers all of the difficult things that Sara and Ben must deal with. Near the beginning of the story, Mahurin says that: “Sara’s life had been empty until she got a dog.” Indeed it was! Tazzie reigns throughout this narrative as great companion and stress reliever, offering all the things that dogs do: unconditional love, support, sympathy companionship. As Sara and Ben traverse the mountain before them: the difficulties with their imperfect families, the bleakness of serious illness, the struggles of a new relationship, Tazzie is there urging them on in her own way. The relationship between human beings with each other and humans with animals is one that this author knows well. I loved this story and so will you!
5.0 out of 5 stars Moving, October 11, 2014
This review is from: His Name was Ben (Paperback)
I have read others’ reviews of this endearing story and I have nothing by way of a useful review to add regarding the story itself or the writing. I agree with what others have said in theirs. However, . . . .What I would like to acknowledge is the wonderful courage and amazing heart possessed by this story’s author. In her inimitable down-to-Earth style, in her unique way, Paulette tells, not just her own or another’s story, but generically each of our own stories too, demonstrating to us how it is possible to escape the self-generated shackles, the self-protective illusions in our minds, to ignite and stoke our true potential for love, enabling us to create our own lives, moment by precious moment, as we live them.
5.0 out of 5 stars A great read!, November 2, 2014
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I loved “His Name was Ben” so much I read it twice! The first time for entertainment and the second time paying more attention technically, not that I’m any sort of an author, literary agent or even know how to write a short story. This is such a great love story which reminds us that despite facing seemingly unbeatable odds, life is still worth living. Being a personal friend of Paulette, I so loved the little bits of her personal life she infused into the story: Ojai, details of her house indoor and out, Tazzie, UCLA, NASA, her experiences as an NP working in the ER with true, accurate medical details and more. Congratulations Paulette on the success of the book. Can’t wait for your next one!
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CANINE ADOPTION RESCUE LEAGUE

Canine Adoption and Rescue League – CARL will benefit from profits of His Name Was Ben. My husband and I have been volunteers with this organization since its inceptions many years ago. It is the largest dog rescue non-profit in Ventura County with its own kennel. They have saved hundreds of dog’s lives through the years and are the group that runs the annual Ventura County Pooch Parade. They need help with funds, volunteers, and supplies for dogs (food, etc.). They are a terrific organization. Have a stop over there and feel free to give them a like. Tell them Terry & Paulette sent you.

Read a book. Save a life.

CARL’S FACEBOOK PAGE: https://www.facebook.com/CARLdogs

CARL’S WEBSITE: http://carldogs.org/

All profits from my first book, The Persecution of Mildred Dunlap, are going to http://sparcsaveslives.org/  They are the first and only no-kill shelter in Ventura County, CA.

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Thank you J.K. Bevill – Lost Creek Publishing

Kerry Bevill’s blog went silent a few months back but we stayed in touch. He continues to be a wonderfully giving, supportive friend. For all of us who know and appreciate how giving and generous he was in sharing and reblogging I wanted to share this and give a special shout out to Kerry. Thank you so much. Today a dog will be wagging because of you.

5.0 out of 5 stars There is a list, a very short list, …, October 8, 2014
This review is from: His Name was Ben (Paperback)
There is a list, a very short list, of books that I have read non-stop from cover to cover. The first, and the one that still haunts me, is Ernest Hemingway’s “Islands In The Stream.” The second is Steven King’s “The Stand.” Recently, in December 2013, I added Paulette Mahurin’s “The Persecution Of Mildred Dunlap” and this month, October 2014, I added Paulette’s “His Name Was Ben.” I believe both of Paulette’s works should be made into movies and I have discussed this with her. Since some time has passed since we talked about the movie version of her first work, I do not remember who I decided should star. Since “His name was Ben” is fresh in my mind, I have decided that Leonardo DiCaprio should play Ben and Cote de Pablo should play Sara. So, there is my short list and, I believe, all works herein should be on everyone’s short list.
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5.0 out of 5 stars An Excellent Story!!!, November 2, 2014
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Where to start with this… In the beginning, there were aspects of this novel that nagged at me. There were a couple instances of awkward dialogue, once or twice when I was surprised by a character’s behavior, and a small bit of ‘head-hopping.’ And yet I’m still rating it five stars. Why?

Because the story is that good. Despite those minor nits turning me against the novel at first, this is a plot that refuses to be ignored, bringing tears to my eyes at the very end and pulling me in further with each moment shared by the Ben and Sara. From the moment she steals his phone number to an awkward dinner with her family, to their final moments together, this plot tugged at my strongest emotions. As I read, I stopped caring about the technical imperfections, focusing instead on this doomed love story of two cancer patients clinging to the hope of an experimental treatment. Did it remind me a little of The Fault in Our Stars? I think that might be an insult to this book. There’s a definite maturity here that TFIOS never managed to achieve for me, a realness to the love and pasts of both of these characters.

I would recommend this novel to anyone, especially those who want a realistic tale of star-crossed romance and a couple who manages to find love despite their fates. Ben touched my heart in more ways than I thought he would, and I can assure you I won’t be forgetting his name anytime soon.

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Probes in rich depth a story about living life to the fullest

 All profits going to help save dog’s lives.
5.0 out of 5 stars Life Lessons, October 6, 2014
This review is from: His Name was Ben (Kindle Edition)

Inspired by real characters, Paulette Mahurin’s HIS NAME WAS BEN probes in rich depth a story about living life to the fullest. Many books are out in the world that tell of patients, friends and family dealing with their own or another’s journey with cancer. The exceptionally tender, fact-filled and emotionally laden difference here is the intense dissection of fear, love, hope and endurance.

Sara’s condition improves with experimental drug treatment after her double mastectomy. Much slower to heal than the cancer is her negative self-image as it battles with the desire for love, sex and a caring relationship. Stealing a peek as Ben fills out a questionnaire at their oncologist’s office, she is attracted to him and takes note of his telephone number. Egged on by her friend Ellen, she finally calls him and sets a date…but when an accident keeps her from him, he figures she is a flake. After all, why would she be any different than his past experiences? The tall exceptionally good-looking man, she later learns, has pancreatic cancer, one of the most hopeless of cancers.

Ben and Sara literally grope toward a fulfilling relationship as they deal with their illnesses, toxic family histories and their developing trust and love. Mahurin’s writing is sharp as the surgeon’s scalpel cutting into the dynamics of childhood trauma. As Sara and Ben assist each other to deal with their pasts, their love intensifies and matures. Healing occurs on multiple levels, even in the face of Ben’s deteriorating physical condition. Mahurin has an enormous talent for exploring character development as the reader finds in the unfolding of layer after layer of individual growth and change. Sara’s dog Tazzie and her friend Ellen, a nurse as is Sara, have been her only support until Ben’s entry into her life. By the story’s end, their mutual support system swells and multiplies in numbers, understanding and love. Sara and Ben give the fortunate reader lessons in living.

Paulette Mahurin’s compassion is shown throughout her writing but also in her “real” life. Proceeds from her writing go to assist in animal rescue, obviously an issue close to her heart.

5.0 out of 5 stars Realistic and Inspiring, October 6, 2014
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“His Name was Ben” is a true love story. It follows the lives of two cancer patients. Sara has given up on life until she receives word from her oncologist that she has been accepted into a treatment program that has promise. She is hesitant to hope, but trusts the encouragement of her doctor. The day she receives her first treatment, she meets a man. Ben is also a cancer patient and has little hope for recovery, but is determined to beat his disease against all odds. Both patients enter the same treatment program with drastically different results.
The story follows this pair as they deal with overwhelming family obstacles. Neither one trusts easily because of their past life experiences. As they push themselves to accept unfamiliar emotions, learn to trust and let go of fear, Ben and Sara find a deep, healing love that is rare. It is a great reminder that it’s never too late to find that special someone.
Mahurin does an excellent job of drawing her reader into this story. The characters are realistic and beautifully flawed. The story, although tragic and emotional, is powerful and inspiring. I would recommend this book to others and thank Paulette Mahurin for writing such a thought provoking and poignant story.

 

5.0 out of 5 stars Life is Precious, October 7, 2014
This review is from: His Name was Ben (Kindle Edition)
Amazing story about a woman who has cancer and is trying to find the balance of life. while at the doctors office she meets Ben he turns her world upside down. This is an emotionally gripping story about a couple that overcomes many obstacles and also has to face reality. Great read that reminds us how precious life is.
4.0 out of 5 stars Watching a Rose Bud Open, November 2, 2014
This review is from: His Name was Ben (Kindle Edition)
Reading “His Name Was Ben” by Paulette Mahurin was like peeling back the layers of an onion or perhaps watching a rose bud slowly turn into an open rose. Sort of a bitter/sweet read, mixed emotions, joy and sorrow. Perhaps saying more than that would make the read be less enjoyable for you. It is a book that will leave you thinking for a while, a story that puts you in the shoes of someone with the illness of cancer. Although I was grateful the author did not use my Savior’s name in vain much, it is in there, influencing my review on the book. Over all it was a good read and I know I have a different perspective on cancer, life itself, and gratitude for the little things in life.
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His Name Was Ben (Book Review)

The Persecution of Mildred Dunlap:

Thank you, Kev, for this great review and posting it to your site. And a special heartfelt thank you for all you do to help indie authors. You’re a gem. <3

Originally posted on Kev's Blog:

51i68Gzmu9L._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-sticker-v3-big,TopRight,0,-55_SX278_SY278_PIkin4,BottomRight,1,22_AA300_SH20_OU02_Paulette captures the essence of emotions in gripping story of how two cancer patients find each other and fall in love.
It is a tale of highs and lows. It is the sense of the mixed emotions that grasped me as a reader.

There are the emotions one would expect from being diagnosed with the most aggressive forms of cancer… fear of the unknown and the known, despair and hopelessness. But there are other feelings involved: the fear of being rejected, of not being wanted and the fear of losing one’s womanhood or manhood.

Add to the mix unhealthy family relationships that cause even more stress and anxiety with a complete lack of empathy and even sympathy.

And then add…

The desire to be accepted and loved. The hope of new trials and medications, The effects of cancer and the after effects of treatment; The realization of success/failure and The determination…

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How often do we read a narrative that cuts so close, we bleed emotionally?

5.0 out of 5 stars Extraordinary! Poignant! How often do we really get …, October 2, 2014
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Extraordinary! Poignant! How often do we really get to see, to read a narrative that cuts so close, we bleed emotionally? Mrs.Mahurin is perhaps one of the most talented writers of our time. She draws us in, fills us with questions, and makes us realize our own frailties. We find ourselves weighing our values, questioning our capacity to deal with pain, suffering, and life in real terms. This story is too real, too raw, and too close to our own reality to put down. In the jargon of today, it is a real “page turner”. We have all faced tragedy in our lives, but how Sara, the main character, deals with her cancer, and the world around her, is a valuable lesson for us all. It is an emotional story that will make you wake up, and become part of the events happening all around us everyday. Her descriptive capacity makes the story all the more believable and a true reality for everyone. We can see who the heroes are, and they are all of us on some level. Life is hard, and life is complex, and how we deal with daily events is the summation of who we really are. Read this book and prepare to look at life differently, wholly, and with more respect than perhaps you ever have!
5.0 out of 5 stars I’m not very good at writing reviews so I’ll just keep it plain …, October 3, 2014
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I’m not very good at writing reviews so I’ll just keep it plain and simple. I enjoyed getting to know the characters. I kept trying to put myself in their very real shoes. And I cheered, hoped and prayed for them all the way. More characters from Paulette to fall in love with.
5.0 out of 5 stars Wisdom in writing, October 5, 2014
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Paulette Mahurin has surely “found a vein”, a particular niche for her writing which I would describe as “raw”, “honest”, “deeper than deep” and even “therapeutic” as she expresses in detail what other writers only touch on or imply. Her latest book “His Name Was Ben” reaches beyond mere story telling and hints how readers who have similar issues might even resolve them.I was especially impressed by her portrayal of the character “Rosalie”. It was beyond perfection. Everyone has experienced a “Rosalie” at some point in their lives and her bite came right through the pages.
Engrossing!
5.0 out of 5 stars … two cancer patients find each other and fall in love. It is a tale of highs and lows, 3 Oct 2014
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Paulette captures the essence of emotions in gripping story of how two cancer patients find each other and fall in love. It is a tale of highs and lows. It is the sense of the mixed emotions thats grasped me as a reader.There are the emotions one would expect from being diagnosed with the most aggressive forms of cancer… fear of the unknown and the known, despair and hopelessness. But there are other feelings involved: the fear of being rejected, of not being wanted and the fear of losing one’s womanhood or manhood. Add to the mix unhealthy family relationships that cause even more stress and anxiety with a complete lack of empathy and even sympathy. And then add… The desire to be accepted and loved. The hope of new trials and medications, The effects of cancer and the after affects of treatment; The realization of success/failure and The determination to make the most of life despite the odds. Well worth the read and all proceeds go to charity.
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Smile!

The Persecution of Mildred Dunlap:

I LOVE Clowie who is wise, and friendly, and considerate, and loving, and so ADORABLE. Have a visit over there and SMILE.

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This Friday, 3rd October, is World Smile Day. The theme is, “Do an act of kindness. Help one person smile!”

Smiley

That sounds like a lovely idea to me! It would be wonderful if every day could be like that.

It’s something that is easy to get involved in as most of us animals enjoy making people smile. There will be a smile blog hop on Friday, you can find the details on Sugar’s blog.

I thought about what I could do to make all of you smile. I decided that many of my blogging friends have lovely smiles, so I would share a few pictures of them. I’m hoping you’ll smile with them! Enjoy their smiles in the gallery of photos and then I will introduce them to you and tell you where to find them.

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They all have interesting blogs. I’ve kept my introduction to a few…

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